A guide to trans and LGBTQ+ funeral and end of life resources

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In this short guide, we highlight resources and support for LGBTQ+ people, and the people close to them, which help answer questions about planning a funeral and end-of-life care.

We also include sources of information and training for professionals who want to understand and meet the needs of gender diverse, trans and LGBTQ+ people.

The sections in this guide are:

  • LGBTQ+ funerals guidance
  • Advice and resources for funeral professionals
  • Physical and mental health support for LGBTQ+ people
  • LGBTQ+ later life and retirement
  • End-of-life care resources for LGBTQ+ people
  • LGBTQ+ advocacy

You can also read our LGBTQ+ guide to funeral choices to learn more about how we can support you.

LGBTQ+ FUNERALS GUIDANCE

The Queer Funeral Guide

Ash Hayhurst is the author of this excellent resource for people in the LGBTQ+ community as well as their friends and family members. The guide covers a huge range of questions and is a must-read for people in the funeral sector.

ADVICE AND RESOURCES FOR FUNERAL PROFESSIONALS

Being Ready

A research project into trans and gender diverse funeral care, including training for funeral directors and other death care professionals.

Ceremony Matters

Ceremony Matters provides professional development training for funeral celebrants. Subscribers can still access webinars from their 2021 Diversity and Inclusion Online Super Conference, which included a conference on LGBTQIA+ identity.

Gender Identity Research and Education Society (GIRES)

The charity GIRES works to improve the lives of trans and gender non-conforming people across the UK. As part of their mission, they provide training to businesses. GIRES also has resources that are aimed at health professionals, many of which are relevant to the funeral sector.

The Diversity Trust

The Diversity Trust is a social enterprise working to promote equality, diversity and inclusion. They offer training opportunities for workplaces and have helpful research reports.

PHYSICAL AND MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE

CliniQ

CliniQ provides physical and mental health services for trans people in London, as well as their friends and family. They also offer trans awareness training.

Switchboard LGBTQ+ Helpline

The charity Switchboard operates a confidential helpline for people in the LGBTQ+ community, their friends and family members. They’ll listen to anything you’d like to talk about and can offer support.

Switchboard in Brighton also runs the Grief Encounters project for LGBTQ+ people experiencing bereavement. Read our blog about the project here.

Queercircle

QUEERCIRCLE is a LGBTQ+ led charity that champions the arts as a tool for systemic change. They run events bringing people together to explore grief through art and community, and share resources to support LGBTQ+ people navigating grief and loss.

London LGBTQ+ Community Centre

The London LGBTQ+ Community Centre runs monthly meet-ups for 50+ trans and non-binary people (these meet-ups are not a crisis support service).

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LGBTQ+ LATER LIFE AND RETIREMENT

AGE UK LGBTQ+ Resources

The charity Age UK offers an excellent range of projects, support groups and resources for older LGBTQ+ people.

Tonic Housing

This community organisation were the UK’s first provider of LGBTQ+ affirmative retirement housing. They run the Tonic@Bankhouse retirement community in Vauxhall, London. In 2025, they published Precarious Lives, a study that explores financial and material hardship among LGBTQ+ people in London aged 50 and above.

Read our interview with the organisers of Tooting’s 50+ LGBTQ Coffee Morning.

END-OF-LIFE CARE RESOURCES FOR LGBTQ+ PEOPLE

Hospice UK

|Hospice UK's I Just Want To Be Me report uses real-world experience to highlight the needs of trans and gender diverse people at the end of life.

It sets out recommendations for what hospices and palliative care professionals can do to make end of life care more equitable and accessible for everyone.

Marie Curie

Practical resources and support for LGBTQ+ people who are living with a terminal illness and the people close to them.

UK Cancer and Transition Service (UCATS)

Services and advice for trans and gender diverse people with cancer or a history of cancer.

LGBTQ+ ADVOCACY

Trans Lives

Trans Lives do the poignant and profound work of ‘remembering and resisting’ the preventable and premature deaths of trans and non-binary people in the UK. Individuals can contribute to their community evidence base on their website.

Further support

If you know of any other resources, training or opportunities, do let us know.

At Poppy’s, we are supporting the Being Ready project to help us build on the service we already offer trans and gender diverse people, their families and friends when they are in our care.

We also offer a free service called My Funeral Wishes, which enables you to talk about and record your funeral wishes and what's most important to you with our member of our team. Book an appointment here.

We're here if you need us. Contact us if you need help planning a funeral.

Read our LGBTQ+ guide to funeral choices to learn more about how we can support you.

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